Matet de Leon Breaks Her Silence on the Passing of Nora Aunor: A Deeply Personal Revelation and Tribute
The Philippine entertainment industry is in mourning after the passing of one of its most iconic figures, Nora Aunor. Known as the “Superstar” of Philippine cinema, her death marks the end of an era. But behind the glitz and glamour lies a story of family, conflict, love, and reconciliation—one that her adopted daughter, actress Matet de Leon, has now chosen to share with the public.
In an emotional and heartfelt message, Matet broke her silence and opened up about the complicated yet profound bond she shared with her late mother. Her tribute was not only a celebration of Nora’s life but also an honest revelation about the pain, regret, and healing that shaped their final years together.
“She was a legend to the world, but to me, she was Mama,” Matet began. “She wasn’t perfect. We weren’t perfect. But our love—despite everything—was real.”
A Mother’s Secret Battle
What the public didn’t know, Matet revealed, was that Nora Aunor had been battling a long-term illness for years. The nature of her condition was kept secret by the family at Nora’s own request. She wanted to be remembered as strong, not frail.
“She hated pity,” Matet said. “She was proud. She carried herself with strength and dignity, even when her body was failing her.”
Despite frequent rumors about the actress’s health, the family always maintained silence. According to Matet, Nora had made it clear she did not want her condition to overshadow her work or her public image. “She told us: ‘Let me go the way I lived—quietly and gracefully.’”
Years of Silence and a Painful Rift
Their relationship wasn’t always easy. In 2022, Matet and Nora had a very public falling-out due to a personal and business conflict involving a food product that Matet was promoting, which reportedly competed with a similar product connected to Aunor.
Harsh words were exchanged. Matet, in interviews at the time, expressed feelings of betrayal and disappointment. “I was hurt,” she admitted in her latest statement. “And I’m sure she was too.”
For nearly a year, they did not speak. It was a period filled with bitterness, silence, and unresolved emotions.
The Road to Reconciliation
But time, as they say, heals all wounds. In early 2024, just months before Nora’s passing, Matet reached out to her mother. What followed was a tearful reunion—one that Matet now treasures as a final gift.
“We cried. We hugged. We said everything we needed to say,” she shared. “She told me she never stopped loving me. And I told her the same.”
That reconciliation gave both women the closure they needed. Matet was with her mother during her final days, holding her hand, singing the songs she used to sing as a child. “It was like going back in time. Just me and her.”
A Final Goodbye
Nora Aunor passed away surrounded by loved ones. According to Matet, her last words were simple but powerful: “Live your life. Don’t be sad for too long.”
In her message, Matet emphasized how important it is to cherish the people we love while we still have the chance. “We waited too long. I almost lost the chance to say sorry, to say I love you. If I can tell people anything now, it’s this: Don’t wait.”
Honoring a Legacy
Matet described her mother not just as an icon but as a woman of immense strength, resilience, and depth. “She rose from poverty, from hardship. She built a legacy with her voice, her talent, and her soul.”
Fans across the Philippines and around the world have poured out their love, sharing tributes, stories, and memories of the Superstar who defined a generation. Matet, overwhelmed by the support, expressed her gratitude.
“To everyone who loved her—thank you. She felt your love. Even when she was in pain, your support kept her strong.”
Moving Forward with Her Mother’s Spirit
While grief remains heavy in her heart, Matet says she is committed to living a life that honors her mother’s memory. “Mama always told me: ‘Don’t be afraid to fall. Just make sure you stand up stronger.’ That’s what I’ll do now.”
The family is currently preparing for memorial services that will allow fans and loved ones to say their final goodbyes. Matet has asked for privacy in the coming days but promised that Nora’s legacy would continue through her work and the values she instilled in her children.
“She may be gone, but she will never be forgotten. The Superstar lives on—in film, in song, and in the hearts of those who loved her.”
Nora Aunor, one of Philippine cinema’s biggest stars, dies at 71
Nora Aunor, who became one of the biggest stars of Philippine cinema during a career that spanned seven decades, has died.
Aunor died Wednesday, according to social media posts from her children. She was 71. No further details on the cause or place of her death were immediately given.
Filipina actor Lotlot de León said on Instagram that her mother “touched generations with her unmatched talent, grace, and passion for the craft. Her voice, presence, and artistry shaped a legacy that will never fade.”
De León said funeral plans and other details will be shared later.
Aunor, born Nora Cabaltera Villamayor to an impoverished family in eastern Camarines Sur province, sold water in a train station in her hometown in her youth.
She first gained fame in her teens as a singer in the 1960s before moving on to movies. She amassed more than 200 credits in film and television that included many classics of Philippine cinema, and won dozens of acting awards.
Memorable roles included 1976’s “Tatlong Taong Walang Diyos” (“Three Years Without God”), 1984’s “Bulaklak sa City Jail” (“Flowers of the City Jail”) and 1995’s “The Flor Contemplacion Story.”
She swept best actress awards in the country for her performance in 1990’s “Andrea, Paano ba ang Maging Isang Ina?” (“Andrea, What is It Like to be a Mother?”) and won best actress at the Asian Film Awards for her portrayal of a midwife in 2012’s “Thy Womb.”
Aunor was still acting as recently as last year, starring in the film “Mananambal” (“The Healer”) and appearing on the TV series “Lilet Matias, Attorney-at-Law.”
Aunor was named a National Artist for Film and Broadcast Arts – the country’s biggest honor for actors – in 2022. In 2014, then-President Benigno Aquino III had denied her the honor because of a previous drug arrest in the US, provoking broad outcry.
Aunor’s lawyer said the 2005 arrest at the Los Angeles airport came because of a pipe found in a bag she did not pack, noting she was traveling with four assistants at the time. The charges were dropped in 2007 after she completed a diversion program, her lawyer said in 2014.
Aunor was married to actor Christopher de León from 1975 until 1996.
She is survived by their children Lotlet, Ian, Matet, Kiko and Kenneth de León.